I went from dreaming about my wedding day to dreading every aspect of the planning process.
Now my daily struggle with wedding planning included:
What I learned shocked me:
...even if nothing else has worked before.
Crying every weekend because wedding planning feels impossible
Doing 90% of the work while your fiancé claims he "doesn't know how to help"
Answering your mom's daily questions while having no answers yourself
Spending all your free time on wedding errands instead of enjoying your engagement
Work performance suffering because wedding planning consumes your brain
Feeling like you're failing as a woman because you're not enjoying this process
Calm, organized planning sessions that fit into your real schedule
A partner who actually takes ownership of wedding tasks without being managed
Clear boundaries with family that eliminate daily drama and questions
Confident decision-making without second-guessing every choice
Weekends free to enjoy your engagement instead of running errands
Looking forward to your wedding day instead of just wanting it to be over